Comments on: Wanting Things To Be Different http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/ Helping 1,000,000 people live happier, more fulfilled lives! Sun, 01 Nov 2009 08:25:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Reiki Tutor http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-1696 Reiki Tutor Sun, 01 Nov 2009 08:25:04 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-1696 What an excellent blog, I've added your feed to my RSS reader. :) What an excellent blog, I’ve added your feed to my RSS reader. :)

]]> By: Shireen http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-182 Shireen Fri, 20 Mar 2009 09:58:34 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-182 So glad I found this article - sometimes the simplest truths sound paradoxical... sometimes downright "wt..?!" but you did a great job of articulating this one! Thank you. Blessings Shireen So glad I found this article – sometimes the simplest truths sound paradoxical… sometimes downright “wt..?!” but you did a great job of articulating this one!

Thank you.

Blessings
Shireen

]]> By: Leslie http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-177 Leslie Thu, 19 Mar 2009 22:46:03 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-177 Roger...I'm so proud of you! Congrats on this great idea, great opportunity!!! Roger…I’m so proud of you! Congrats on this great idea, great opportunity!!!

]]> By: Louise Crooks http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-149 Louise Crooks Sat, 14 Mar 2009 18:58:47 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-149 Hi Roger, Very nice coaching! She was lucky to find you on Twitter! Warmly, Louise Hi Roger,

Very nice coaching! She was lucky to find you on Twitter!

Warmly,
Louise

]]> By: Nina East http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-135 Nina East Wed, 11 Mar 2009 14:32:08 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-135 So true, Roger!! It's all feeling, feeling, feeling. Now...if we can just remember that when we are focused on things that don't feel so good... :) It cracked me up to see the photo of the girl with the tiara - because that SO represents the feeling I adore and am creating (for me, but also for other women, too). Much JOY, Nina! So true, Roger!!
It’s all feeling, feeling, feeling. Now…if we can just remember that when we are focused on things that don’t feel so good… :)

It cracked me up to see the photo of the girl with the tiara – because that SO represents the feeling I adore and am creating (for me, but also for other women, too).

Much JOY,
Nina!

]]> By: Halina http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Halina Wed, 11 Mar 2009 14:30:11 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-134 And, when you take it even one (giant :-)) step further, surprise: The essence, what you really want, really have been searching for all your life is right here, right now :-) Joyfully - Halina And, when you take it even one (giant :-) ) step further, surprise:
The essence, what you really want, really have been searching for all your life is right here, right now

:-)

Joyfully -

Halina

]]> By: Alicia Smith, DISC Ninja http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-131 Alicia Smith, DISC Ninja Wed, 11 Mar 2009 00:36:45 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-131 Your eloquence on the subject jumped off the page for me. I immediately forward your post to a couple of very dear friends. The pull towards the "new vehicle" is very seductive and, withuot awareness, it often "wins" out, only to be followed shortly thereafter with that old familiar "let down" feeling. Life is once again empty. After many years (do I want to admit that I'm a slow learner?!?!) I get the essence more and more often and more and more readily. But... With much appreciation for you! Alicia Smith, DiSC Ninja Your eloquence on the subject jumped off the page for me. I immediately forward your post to a couple of very dear friends.

The pull towards the “new vehicle” is very seductive and, withuot awareness, it often “wins” out, only to be followed shortly thereafter with that old familiar “let down” feeling. Life is once again empty.

After many years (do I want to admit that I’m a slow learner?!?!) I get the essence more and more often and more and more readily. But…

With much appreciation for you!

Alicia Smith, DiSC Ninja

]]> By: Dora Crow http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-127 Dora Crow Tue, 10 Mar 2009 20:26:42 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-127 Roger, You are SO correct! I have recently been working with a Law of Attraction coach who was essentially trying to get me to understand the same thing. It's not the "action", "job", etc., -- we need to focus on how we would "feel" if we had those things or were doing those things. It's the "feeling" we want to attract, and it doesn't necessarily have to be limited by us to getting or doing "just one thing, or one way". So GLAD I met you on Twitter recently! (Actually, my alter-ego, a long-haired dachshund met you on Twitter.) ~ Dora Crow Roger,

You are SO correct! I have recently been working with a Law of Attraction coach who was essentially trying to get me to understand the same thing. It’s not the “action”, “job”, etc., — we need to focus on how we would “feel” if we had those things or were doing those things. It’s the “feeling” we want to attract, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be limited by us to getting or doing “just one thing, or one way”.

So GLAD I met you on Twitter recently! (Actually, my alter-ego, a long-haired dachshund met you on Twitter.)

~ Dora Crow

]]> By: Natalie Tucker Miller http://coachingnyc.com/blog/2009/03/wanting-things-to-be-different/comment-page-1/#comment-126 Natalie Tucker Miller Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:42:08 +0000 http://coachingnyc.com/blog/?p=172#comment-126 Terrific explanation, Roger! Understanding that much of what we do is simply seeking to fill an unmet need can help us to live our lives more purposefully. And the paradox of that is, the desire to live our lives purposefully can become just another unmet need! By learning to love what "is", and feeling the sensations of fulfilled needs, and truly, madly, deeply falling in love with ourselves, we can cease the seeking begin be-ing. Big stuff! ;-) Terrific explanation, Roger!

Understanding that much of what we do is simply seeking to fill an unmet need can help us to live our lives more purposefully. And the paradox of that is, the desire to live our lives purposefully can become just another unmet need!

By learning to love what “is”, and feeling the sensations of fulfilled needs, and truly, madly, deeply falling in love with ourselves, we can cease the seeking begin be-ing. Big stuff! ;-)

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