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		<title>New Perspectives for Job Seekers</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:28:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ask The Life Coach &#8211; Video Episode 1 - Stephanie &#8211; A recruiter&#8230; In this episode of Ask The Life Coach, Stephanie, a recruiter, asks Life Coach Roger DeWitt how we can get people to see other opportunities. When what has been working stops working how do we encourage job seekers in this economy to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Ask The Life Coach &#8211; Video Episode 1 -<br />
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<p><span>In this episode of Ask The Life Coach, Stephanie, a recruiter, asks Life Coach Roger DeWitt how we can get people to see other opportunities. When what has been working stops working how do we encourage job seekers in this economy to find a new perspective? (4 Minutes 30 seconds)<br />
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		<title>Ask The Life Coach &#8211; A New Vlog Series</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 13:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Beginning March 2&#8230; I will be introducing 2 new Vlogs to my blog &#8212; &#8220;Ask The Life Coach&#8221; and &#8220;Ask The Small Business Marketing Coach.&#8221; These will be real life, real people questions from a down and dirty, person on the street interview format. I have created a short 1 minute Vlog &#8212; with my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Beginning March 2&#8230;</h2>
<p>I will be introducing 2 new Vlogs to my blog &#8212; &#8220;Ask The Life Coach&#8221; and &#8220;Ask The Small Business Marketing Coach.&#8221; These will be real life, real people questions from a down and dirty, person on the street interview format.</p>
<p>I have created a short 1 minute Vlog &#8212; with my new <a href="http://www.theflip.com/" target="_blank">FLIP Mino  Video Camera</a> &#8212; to give a quick explanation.  For those of you  who Vlog, check out <a href="http://www.theflip.com/" target="_blank">the Flip</a>.  It is literally smaller than my iPhone so I will carry it in my pocket all the time!</p>
<p>Check it out!</p>
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		<title>When The Going Gets Tough</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 15:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband left for work early this morning. About five minutes after he left, I got a text from him. He said, &#8220;guess what, the same taxi driver who picked me up yesterday morning, just pick me up today.&#8221; I texted back a &#8220;wow, that&#8217;s amazing&#8221; response and continued to watch the early morning news. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband left for work early this morning. About five minutes after he left, I got a text from him. He said, &#8220;guess what, the same taxi driver who picked me up yesterday morning, just pick me up today.&#8221; I texted back a &#8220;wow, that&#8217;s amazing&#8221; response and continued to watch the early morning news. What he texted me after that was what piqued my interest and gave rise to this blog post.</p>
<p>Apparently the taxi driver had posted his business resume in his taxi cab. It had his full name, his work history, the fact that he went to North Carolina A. and T. University for undergrad and got his MBA from LaSalle.</p>
<p>He is currently driving a taxi cab in New York City and my guess is, given the fact that he has posted his resume, it is not a job that he sees himself doing for ever.</p>
<p>As someone who finds himself worrying about things that &#8220;might&#8221; happen, this got me thinking. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I have no knowledge of exactly what happened to this gentleman and everything I&#8217;m about to tell you I am completely making up in my head. However, it made me think.</p>
<p>Clearly, this man at some point lost his job or was downsized or&#8230; who knows what and he found the need to find alternate work &#8212; survival work, you know. Probably his worst fear was realized.  I imagine he went looking for another business job but to no avail.  He came to a point where he simply needed to make a living so he started driving a cab.  Believe me &#8212; it is a tough job  to drive a taxi in NYC.  You deal with all kinds of people and by law you have to take them.  It ain&#8217;t easy and I admire those who do it.</p>
<p>What I love about this story is the optimism. I&#8217;m guessing the gentleman didn&#8217;t worry and wring his hands in fear over what might happen. Instead, he simply did what he needed to do. The creativity here is what stuns me. He examined the situation and instead of falling into victimhood and turning bitter, I imagine that he asked himself &#8220;what is the opportunity here in this situation?&#8221; The answer:  A lot of people sit in the back of my car. Many of them are executives and business people. Some of them might be looking to hire someone. Why don&#8217;t I let them know I&#8217;m looking for a position and show them how creative I can be in the process.</p>
<p>Genius!</p>
<p>There are two takeaways for me in this:</p>
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<li>When when stuff happens in life you have 2 choices: a) be a victim and become resentful or b) simply do what you need to do to take care of the situation the best way you can and realize situations can change.</li>
<li>Never lose your optimism. If you look at the situation you are currently in <em>creatively</em>, you will find opportunity in the strangest of places.</li>
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<p>I wish I knew someone who was hiring or someone in a major news organization. I would do a story about this man in the hopes that it would inspire other people to think creatively no matter what situation they are in.</p>
<p>So if business is bad or something is going on in your life that just totally sucks, when you can, step outside of yourself and look at the situation from a creative, dispassionate observer position. Ask yourself this question: &#8220;what is my opportunity here and how can I make the most of it?&#8221; Who knows what you might discover. A creative idea just might springboard you in a new direction.</p>


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		<title>We Don&#8217;t See Reality as it is&#8230; We See it Through Filters</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roger DeWitt2</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my work as a Life Coach, I always end up talking to my clients about their perspective, beliefs and fears and how they influence their perception of reality.  There was an amazing example of this on the Today Show yesterday in a Matt Lauer interview with Sarah Palin.  Listen to this 3 minute podcast [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my work as a Life Coach, I always end up talking to my clients about their perspective, beliefs and fears and how they influence their perception of reality.  There was an amazing example of this on the Today Show yesterday in a Matt Lauer interview with Sarah Palin.  Listen to this 3 minute podcast and take an important lesson on how we can change our reality and our results.</p>
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